Beat Porn Addiction
Overcome Porn Addiction before it’s too late. Try Online Sex Therapy from the Safety, Privacy, and Comfort of your home.
Book your Free Phone Consultation now.
Beat Porn Addiction
Overcome Porn Addiction before it’s too late. Try Online Sex Therapy from the Safety, Privacy, and Comfort of your home.
Book your Free Phone Consultation now.
Love | Sex | Heal | Prosper
Safe and Effective Online Counselling From Your Home
Online Counselling can be a guiding light through a maze of uncertainty. You’ll have access to the one-on-one psychotherapy and practical tools you need to reach a place where you can be yourself—individual, happy, and proud.
Love | Sex | Heal | Prosper
Safe and Effective Online Counselling From Your Home
Online Counselling can be a guiding light through a maze of uncertainty. You’ll have access to the one-on-one psychotherapy and practical tools you need to reach a place where you can be yourself—individual, happy, and proud.
Welcome and thank you for visiting.
I’m James, a psychosexual therapist specialising in, and inspired by all aspects of human connection and sexuality.
In 15 years as a psychotherapist and sexologist, I’ve helped individuals and couples hailing from every walk of life, sexual orientation, relationship configuration, and gender identity. From overcoming anxiety, depression, or mental health issues to finding renewed sexual fulfilment, my work has allowed me to empower my clients across a wide array of psychological and sexual challenges.
I know that you contacted me because you need to feel better soon. My goal is to help you reach the happiness you desire.
I offer advice and support based on my training and experience, both in professional practice and my own life. I work from the foundation of sound psychological models, but I get rid of the psycho-babble. I use a combination of strategies and personality theories that we will customise around what works best for you as a unique individual.
I never judge. The language we use will be whatever makes it most natural for you to express your feelings and concerns.
Most of all, I know that you contacted me because you need to feel better soon. My goal is to help you reach the happiness you desire.
Feel free to book your free phone consultation or call/text if you have any questions.
“It’s finally over! Porn no longer controls my sexuality. I’m free to be intimate and passionate with my partner again.”
Richard, 32, Aberystwyth
Take the Porn Test
How many of the questions below would you answer 'Yes' to?
- Has porn changed your expectations in real relationships?
- Do you compare your partners to porn stars?
- Is it easier to become aroused/orgasm from porn than with a real partner?
- Is it harder to orgasm from sex than from masturbating to porn?
- Do you find yourself wishing that you could watch porn while having sex?
- Is it harder to become aroused or get an erection without porn?
- Do you need more and more extreme videos to stay aroused?
- Do you need to stimulate yourself to become erect while watching porn?
- Do you lie about your porn use?
- Do you watch porn to become aroused to masturbate, even when you weren’t aroused initially?
Did you answer 'Yes' to 3 or more?
If you’ve answered ‘Yes’ to 3 or more of the questions above, or if you feel concerned that porn might be impacting your life negatively, please contact me for a Free Telephone Consultation.
I’m passionate about helping my clients heal from the harm that may already have been done and to find positive ways to use erotic content.
“Finally, a therapist who gets it and really cares when he says he does.”
Josh and Alison, Brighton
Healing from Porn Addiction
Discover how Online Sex Therapy can help you:
Erectile Dysfunction
Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction can be cured with the correct course of therapy. Your pain doesn't have to be permanent.
Difficulty Orgasming
Be free to orgasm with a real partner without the need for porn again. Experience mind-blowing sex the way it was meant to be.
Reduced Intimacy
Rekindle desire and intimacy away from the dependency to porn. Live and love again to the fullest.
Loneliness
Remove the isolation caused by porn addiction. Be free again to share your heart and body with the person(s) you love.
Low Self-Esteem
Remove the clouds of self-doubt that porn cast over you. Enjoy your body, sexuality, and individuality again.
Shame
Be open with yourself and your partner without the need for porn-induced shame or guilt.
“The daily check-ins are great! Knowing that I always have support when I need it makes all the difference.”
Robert, 34, London
How It Works
Step 1
Book Online
Book your Free Consultation online to get started, or feel free to call/text me for more information.
Step 2
Free Consultation
Share some of the issues that concern you, and find out more about me, what you can expect, and how online therapy works.
Step 3
Weekly Therapy Online
Get started with counselling sessions and a pragmatic treatment plan that'll be designed to make you feel better soon.
Step 4
Review & Debrief
We can have as many sessions as you feel necessary to help you achieve your goals. At the end, we'll review your achievements and debrief with the tools you'll need to make them permanent.
Step 5
Follow-Up
3 - 6 months following the completion of your therapy, we'll schedule a catch-up call to check in, and make sure that you're doing well.
Examples of what I can help you with.
- Couples Counselling
- Erectile Dysfunction
- Premature Ejaculation
- Porn Addiction
- Desire Differences
- Difficulty Orgasming
- Painful Sex
- Low Libido
- Hyper Libido
- Igniting Passion
- Sexual Orientation
- BDSM / Kink / Alt Sex
- Performance Anxiety
- Sexual Self-Esteem
- Sex Addiction
- Sex Work
- Sexual Abuse
- Sex and Disabilities
- Sex and Illness/Cancer
- Sex and Ageing
The Personal Difference
Safe & Private
No need to travel anywhere, sit in awkward waiting rooms, or explain where you're going. Online Counselling can be done from the safety and privacy of your home to ensure maximum effectiveness of treatment.
No Psycho-babble
I work from the foundation of sound psychological models, but I get rid of the psycho-babble. We'll use a combination of strategies and personality theories that we'll customise around what works best for you as a unique individual.
Daily Check-Ins Between Sessions
Life isn't limited to counselling sessions and the real challenges happen in the middle of everyday life. I'm available for messages in between sessions, 7 days a week, for the support and resources you might need. You'll always receive a response by a guaranteed time, the same day.
Qualifications & Experience
I'm a qualified psychotherapist and sexologist. You'll receive the benefit of 15 years experience as a trusted, fully qualified, and caring psychosexual counsellor - as well as my own life experience. I hold a Masters Degree in Clinical Psychology and a Post-Graduate diploma in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.
Pragmatic Solutions
I pride myself on helping you reach your goals in the shortest possible time. I offer the understanding and care of a counsellor, with the benefit of effective and pragmatic solutions to the challenges that stand in your way.
Active Sessions
Sessions are usually 50 minutes. You'll receive 100% of my attention, active listening, and clinical experience to help you reach your goals in the shortest possible time.
Try Online Therapy Today
Start now with a Free Consultation. No Obligations and no payment required.
Check my calendar online for a slot today, or call/text me for more information.
Affordable Fees
Payment options to suit your needs
I believe that skilled therapy should be available and affordable to everyone, no matter your current circumstances.
I usually advise that we work to weekly 50-minute sessions whenever possible. You may choose to have more, or less sessions, but I find that weekly appointments work well towards meeting my patients’ goals.
In order to maximise the benefits of therapy, I recommend that couples sessions should ideally be 90 minutes long.
- Prepaid
- Pay Per Session
Prepaid
Prepaid Discounts
Prepaid Discounts
Prepaid blocks of 4 sessions
30-Minute Introductory Session - Free
4 x 50-Minute Sessions - £108 each
Frequency - Usually 2-3 sessions per month
or contact me on +44 7986 948 123
Pay Per Session
Pay Per Session
Pay Per Session
Single Session Bookings
25-Minute Introductory Session - Free
50-Minute Session - £149
or contact me on +44 7986 948 123
Affordable Fees
Payment options to suit your needs
I believe that skilled therapy should be available and affordable to everyone, no matter your current circumstances.
I usually advise that we work to weekly 50-minute sessions whenever possible. You may choose to have more, or less sessions, but I find that weekly appointments work well towards meeting my patients’ goals.
In order to maximise the benefits of therapy, I recommend that couples sessions should ideally be 90 minutes long.
- Prepaid
- Pay Per Session
Prepaid
Prepaid Discounts
Prepaid Discounts
Prepaid blocks of 4 sessions
30-Minute Introductory Session - Free
4 x 50-Minute Sessions - £108 each
Frequency - Usually 2-3 sessions per month
or contact me on +44 7986 948 123
Pay Per Session
Pay Per Session
Pay Per Session
Single Session Bookings
25-Minute Introductory Session - Free
50-Minute Session - £149
or contact me on +44 7986 948 123
“I never realised the damage that I was doing to myself until it was too late. James helped me repair that, and be myself again.”
Kevin, 29, Edinburgh
What Happens in Therapy?
Online Therapy provides a safe space away from the challenges of life to allow healing and growth.
In counselling you can explore the issues you're faced with without shame or judgement. You'll discover the underlying causes of stress, anxiety, and unhappiness.
I focus 100% of my attention on you and the things that matter to you. I genuinely care for the well-being of my clients.
Our work together will involve practical homework for you to complete every week. Each task will help you to grow and bring you closer to your goals.
Going above and beyond the norm of counselling, I believe in offering my clients daily availability to the support and resources you need to achieve your goals. Message me any time, 7 days a week.
Our work together will involve practical homework for you to complete every week. Each task will help you to grow and bring you closer to your goals.
“I’m free to be myself with my family again. No secrets. No lies. No shame.”
Adam, 47, Leicester
Benefits of Online Counselling
Safe
Especially at this challenging time during the Coronavirus crisis where it is necessary to limit exposure, online counselling offers a safe alternative whilst ensuring that you receive the best care and assistance for the issues that confront us.
Affordable
Due to reduced overheads, it's possible for me to pass those savings on to my clients. If you are in need of counselling and still cannot afford my regular fees, please get in touch and I'll do my best to make arrangements. I'm here to help, not to get rich by Friday!
Convenient
Online counselling yields the same (and often better) results as face-to-face therapy, but is a lot more convenient. No need to travel. No parking. No public transport. No awkward waiting rooms. No explaining to everyone where you are. Simply log on from any private space, and continue your journey.
Trustworthy
I have 15 years experience as a trusted, qualified, and caring psychotherapist and sexologist. I hold a Masters Degree in Clinical Psychology and a Post-Graduate diploma in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. Please see my testimonials page for real reviews by my clients.
Accessible
Online counselling is available to clients anywhere, no matter how remote, or in which time zones they are. Clients with enhanced accessibility requirements don't need to worry about the traveling or accessibility issues they might normally have to face.
Secure
I use only secure and encrypted video links for our communication. All conversations we have are private, secure, and held to the highest ethical standards.
“I began feeling better after the very first call. I was worried about starting at first, but since then, I’ve never looked back.”
Eban, 67, Manchester
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I can't afford therapy?
I believe that skilled therapy should be available to everyone. Together we’ll agree a therapy plan that will align with your budget and work to maximise your goals.
I usually advise that we work to weekly sessions whenever possible. You may choose to have more, or less sessions, but I find that weekly appointments work well towards meeting patient goals.
In order to enhance the benefits in the case of relationship therapy, couples sessions should ideally be 100 minutes long. However, I’ll be guided by your individual requirements.
Do you do Couples Therapy?
Absolutely. Couples Therapy and Relationship Therapy can play a vital role in the future success of a relationship. It’s often the belief that only couples who struggle, go for therapy. In fact, many couples I see contact me to improve already-healthy relationships further, while others have past issues to sort through. In both cases, online counselling can play a vital role in the happiness of all partners.
Do I have to be referred by my GP?
No – if you feel that you’d like to begin counselling, feel free to contact me directly. Referrals are welcome, but are by no means required.
What types of therapy do you do?
I provide psychotherapy, couples/relationship counselling, sex therapy, and coaching. My approach is pragmatic and includes not only questions directed at you, but also assistance in reaching an achievable plan that can be accomplished across a realistic space of time. I offer advice based on my training and experience, both professionally and in my private life. My goal is to help my clients achieve rewarding relationships, fulfilling sex, balanced thinking and emotions, and to achieve the goals you set in your life.
How often do I need to have a session?
In order to reach your goals as soon as possible, I recommend having at least one session per week. These will usually be on the same day and time. We can also customise your therapy to include more slots, should you wish. I’ll share my mobile number with you at the beginning of therapy. You’re welcome to message me in between sessions for ongoing support, and I’ll get back to you before the end of the day. Please do not be worried to contact me–I’m here to help.
Feel Better Today!
Book now for your free phone session today, and first therapy session within 24 hours.